Have you ever taken a moment to consider how your battles are sucking the life out of you? Or the moments when you get that feeling of being somehow "less than" due to things going on in your head?

If so, breathe and calm down. You're not alone, and you're not weak. Surviving mental illness is actually one of the strongest things that any human can do.

Even with higher awareness, many myths about mental illness persist in modern society. Some individuals may believe that mental illness is solely "in your head" or that you must "snap out of it". Not only are these false, they can also be detrimental. In reality, mental illnesses usually emerges from a blend of biological, psychological, and environmental factors. They are legitimate health problems such as diabetes, heart disease, or a fractured bone and they are owed an equal amount of concern and sympathy.

"Mental illness does not equate to one's character, work ethic, or worth."

Mental illness does not equate to one's character, work ethic, or worth. We would never indicate someone is weak to be sick with asthma, heal from a surgical operation, or remain perennially physically sick, and we must not state anyone is weak to be sick mentally. All these sicknesses are due to complex such things as genes, chemistry of the brain, traumatic experience, and surroundings—complexities which lie far more beyond the person in control.

Moreover, mental illness in no sense diminishes a person's potential to be great. Some of the greatest minds, writers, artists, and leaders as well, suffered from their own mental illnesses. Winston Churchill, for instance, referred to depression as his "black dog" but nevertheless went on to make world history. Vincent van Gogh, whose own history of descent into mental chaos is well documented, left this world with many masterpieces. These instances remind us that mental illness is no hindrance to achievement. In fact, those who suffer from mental illness can contribute new visions, creativity, and determination to the world. By de-stigmatizing and encouraging treatment, we allow these people to contribute to society without bias.

Facing Stigma Takes Courage

For some, the realization that they do have a mental illness or need to get treatment is as daunting as climbing to the peak of Mount Everest. Why? Because mental illness has long been demonized by society, inaccurately associating it with weakness or instability. Stigma provides a barrier to treatment, and it does make it more complicated for patients to be honest and receive the treatment they need.

One of the reasons why mental illness becomes misinterpreted is that it's so invisible. Unlike a cast on a broken arm or a wound that everyone can see, there isn't a sign that other people can see that tells them that someone is ill. That invisibility will generally lead to bad judgments and assumptions. People will say to you, "They look fine, so they must be fine," or they'll write off their struggles as an exaggeration and say to you, "They're just being dramatic".

Internal emotional isolation
Invisible mental struggles can create profound feelings of isolation.
Connecting and offering support
Empathy breaks down societal bias and miscalculation.

But the truth is that mental illness pervades every aspect of one's life. Mental illness can incapacitate sleep, eating, interpersonal relationships, and work performance, to say nothing of functioning worldwide. This is not demonstrating the absence of distress or dysfunction in the absence of something to see visibly. To be denying the very essence of mental illness, even an invisible one that cannot be measured, is discouraging people from developing empathy.

When someone chooses to be heard, to receive therapy, or to even improve with their mental health, they are being completely courageous. Not only are they fighting their demons, but societal pressures, myths, and stigmas as well. That type of courage should not be underestimated.

Everyone Is Affected by Mental Health—Directly or Indirectly

Though you yourself may not have had to experience mental illness, I am certain that someone in your own family has. World health agencies estimate that one in four people will suffer from some kind of mental illness in their lifetime. That statistic allows it to be your parent, brother or sister, co-worker, or friend.

In denying mental illness and labeling it as weakness, not only do we hurt the afflicted, we force our loved ones to suffer in silence. On the other hand, a supportive and compassionate community would provide room for them to speak the truth and access help without being judged.

"Empathy is one of the most powerful tools we have to change the way mental illness is perceived."

Empathy is our most effective tool for remaking the public image of mental illness. To sit and listen and try to understand another human being's reality, we break down walls of miscalculation and bias. Empathy does not require you to know the answers. It is about presence, validating emotions, and showing that you care.

Simple, Positive Words That Heal
  • "I'm here for you."
  • "I'm not sure precisely what you're going through, but I would like to attempt to walk you through it."

Imagine the impact words like these simple, positive ones have. They seed in people a memory of someone having been there, a feeling that they have not been forgotten and a realisation that they are worthy of pity and understanding.

Mental Illness and the Need for Proper Support

Most people who experience mental illness are not provided with the assistance they need. This could be due to stigma, inability to access medical services, limitations of funds, or cultural reasons. All these factors can through the collaborative action of people, communities, and policymakers.

Schools, the workplace, and the health system all need to get on board to provide mental health with the priority it needs. We make accommodations for those who have physical disabilities; we ought to do the same for those experiencing mental problems. This can be done through providing counseling, organizing awareness campaigns, and promoting work-life balance so that individuals will not experience stress.

At the personal level, assisting a friend or family member in need of mental illness can be of tremendous value. Standing with them, hearing them out, and pushing them in the direction of professional treatment when needed can be of life-changing worth. Developing an open and welcoming mental health culture is central to deconstruction of stigma and the development of a compassionate society.

The Role of Therapy and Medication

Seeking treatment for any type of mental illness is not a sign of weakness; it is actually an essential step toward healing and wellness. Just as persons with diabetes obtain insulin to treat their disease or require physical therapy to recover from bodily injuries, so too treatment for mental illness must be seen as an inevitable and necessary process towards recovery.

Therapy teaches a person how to cope with problems, provides emotional support, and is a nonjudgmental setting where one can express thoughts and feelings freely, fully, and without adjustment in accordance with the prerequisites of a mentor or a supportive, significant other. Various types of therapy, including cognitive-behavioral or dialectical behavior therapy techniques, have been scientifically supported and shown to be effective for problems such as anxiety, depression, and PTSD.

Medication can also become a factor in great treatment if done under the supervision of an experienced practitioner. Of course, many don't want to take the medications for reasons such as their fear of addiction or stigma attached to them. A few of these should be viewed primarily as restoring chemistry to the brain against that of a normal healthy state and boosting one's general health.

Breaking the Cycle of Misinformation

Misinformation speaks to one of the biggest hurdles to progress. An awful lot of concepts that have been found inside such things as: it is a choice; it is weak to seek therapy; medication is just not needed—others have become advice against seeking help.

Education provides a cure for prejudice. While such lessons would begin early on in schools, students would learn about mental health, emotional well-being, techniques for coping with stress, and how to aid others. Educated individuals may begin to notice symptoms of mental illnesses and could seek help.

Conclusion: Mental Illness Is Not a Weakness

Mental health plays an integral role in whatever we do—our relationships, education, productivity, even the functioning of health care systems. Denying mental illness as a sign of weakness erects imperceptible barriers to progress, understanding, and compassion. In contrast, mental illness is now being recognized as a serious health condition; when viewed thus, it could lead to earlier intervention, better treatment, and a more caring and inclusive world.

While transitioning to forward-thinking, it is the time to challenge antiquated ideas that strip human beings of their voices: silence and suffering. It is time to applaud the sum of courage needed for facing the pain of mental illness and to nurture a sense of shared humanity in this.

Mental illness is not a sign of weakness. Rather, it happens to be part and parcel of the human experience. Accepting this premise will be the first step towards personal healing as well as societal transformation. Together, we aspire to create a world that showcases spaces where all people feel comfortable seeking help, sharing experiences, and thriving without fear of judgement.
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Joshua Gooi

Written by Gooi Hean Zhen (Joshua)

BSc Computer Science & Psychology Undergraduate at the University of St Andrews. Former President of Peer Counselling Unit, mental wellness advocate, and developer.